The order from Manzanita.com showed up a couple of days ago. It did take a couple of phone calls to actually get it in the mail, but I'm pretty impressed with the quality and quantity that they shipped.
I can tell that it's going to take a few tries to arrange this into something that looks nice. It also occurred to me that I don't have a place big enough to soak all of this.
As for lighting, I've settled on a 4x39W T-5 retro kit from reefgeek.com for regular viewing supplemented by a 3-150 HQI retro kit from hellolights.com. This all comes with electronic ballasts and pretty good reflectors, so it should work pretty well. I took a trip to a lighting store and decided the T-5s were very slick & much more efficient compared to T-8 or T-12 bulbs. Getting the lighting parts ordered and installed will be a project for after I get the tank situated and the plumbing done.
The Eheim in-line pump, 2 canister filters, 2 in-line hydor heaters, and a few other odds & ends are in the mail. The next task will be to pull up some carpet, do a little tile work, and run the plumbing through the wall behind the tank. I'm still trying to invent a good way to bypass the water softener. It looks like I'll be looking around for a real plumber for this part.