Bert, I see that we all have very differing opinions on the matter, but many of the mattress dealers will let you have a free home trial for 30 days or so (I know the sleep number does), so you may want to go that route to pick what works best for you and your wife. It is a lot of money to spend, so you want to find what works best for you before dishing it out. I know someone who just dropped a ton on a good pillowtop and can't stand it after sleeping on it for a few weeks. Not saying that they are bad, but everyone is different.
