Aren't you overthinking it a little?
I would take the most "simple" soil I could find - ordinary potting mix with no wetting additives and call it a day. You could also do an experiment with a couple of bigger jars (~5-10l) and use different soil in each to see how they behave.. 
I am a little puzzled by your question "Do you think aragonite sand mixed with lava stones would be sufficient as an ammonia removal system in a low tech tank without plants?". Are you planning a planted tank, or a tank without plants?
I am a little puzzled by your question "Do you think aragonite sand mixed with lava stones would be sufficient as an ammonia removal system in a low tech tank without plants?". Are you planning a planted tank, or a tank without plants?